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When we see personal planets, especially the Moon and Venus, involved in one or more quincunxes (or inconjuncts as they are sometimes called), we know the native has some problems with confidence. These people can easily become doormats, and allow themselves to be used or taken advantage of. Read our article on this aspect, the Quincunx, for more information on how to deal with these rather tricky aspects. When the ruler of the seventh house is involved in a quincunx, one can expect that this tendency to undervalue oneself, and perhaps be taken advantage of as a result, may be a theme in one-to-one partnerships.